jarvig13 Posted October 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 Min vens mor blev erklæret hjernedød og familien slukkede for respiratoren her til morgen. Ufatteligt - i forgårs var hun en frisk og rørelig dame på 65 år - 36 timer senere så er hun død. Min vens kæreste søster døde forresten af en blodprop i hjertet. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spock Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 (Endnu) en påmindelse til os andre om at leve livet nu - en dag er det for sent. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 (edited) Endnu et par detaljer fra aftenens succeshistorie, som jeg ikke fik fortalt i nattens indlæg.Jeg ved ikke hvad der sker, men af eller anden grund så kører det i olie. Altså pigen fra igår havde jo en del venner med, herunder også et par veninder. Mens min ven talte med vores BABE den første ½-1 time, så hyggede jeg med hendes venner. Og her gik det bare også helt vildt godt. To af hendes veninder legede jeg pænt meget med og det var sjovt. Men specielt den tredje veninde var tændt. Selvom det var hende jeg klart talte mindst med (fordi hun sad længst væk fra mig og det derfor lidt svært at hører hinanden), hun sad hele aftenen og smilede genert til mig og hver gang jeg lige kiggede kort på hende, så slog hun øjnene genert ned. Men det er jo bizart. Hun var en rigtig flot pige, og uden at jeg stort set snakker med hende, så tænder hun ret meget på mig. Hvad pokker sker der?Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? Hmmmm, pænt forvirret så vælger jeg ikke at give nogen af de to omtalte piger mange chancer - jeg er ligesom allerede travlt optaget anden vej. En anden sjov detalje. Jeg og mine to venner er altså, hvad man vil kalde usædvanligt godt begavet. Med en IQ på sølle 150 så sakker jeg faktisk bagud. Og sådan lidt groft/arrogant så behandler vi vores Shania Twain veninde som en dum blondine. Det generer hende åbenbart ikke særligt meget. Og som sagt, så som aftenen skrider frem, så finder jeg ud af at den faktisk kører ret hurtigt og rimeligt fornuftigt oppe i hovedet på hende. På et eller tidspunkt så kommer det her med intelligens på banen. Så smiler hun kækt og siger "hmmm, jeg ved ikke om I er mere begavede end mig, men jeg har fået testet min til 165" Jeg tvivler ikke et øjeblik på det. Og så får pigebarnet lige et ekstra plus i min karakterbog - det er altså lækkert når piger er begavede. Edited October 23, 2004 by jarvig13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Spock Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 (edited) Jeg tillader mig at stille mig yderst tvivlende ved at hun har testet sin IQ til 165.Efter hvilken skala? Hvilken test? Var den godkendt?Hvor intelligent kan man være når man går med sådan en hat indendørs? :4thumbup: Ifølge Stanford-Binet, eller Wechsler skalaen ville hun så være blandt de 30-50 mest intelligente personer i Danmark.Efter den "gamle skala" ville hun så være blandt de 1000 mest begavede... Lige tilsidst.. bliver det ikke til noget, så send mig da lige hendes tlf-nr i en PM Edited October 23, 2004 by Spock Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest DBM Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 Jarvig, med den succes du oplever, burde du da udgive en lignende bog på dansk... så kommer du sguda til at tjene $$$$ :4thumbup: Jeg skal bare ha' 10% Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 (edited) Spock -> Det var en Menzatest. Spredning 24 - ikke 15. Og med spredning 24, der er man blandt de 2 % højst begavede, hvis man scorer 148. En IQ på 160 svarer til ca. være blandt de 1 % mest begavede. En IQ på 165 er jeg ikke helt sikker på, men det er ca. 0,5 % vi er nede på.Bare lige en detalje, hvorfor jeg ikke tvivlede på det (med mindre hun løg om alt). Hun læste sociologi på 2. årsprøve. Men en del af fritiden gik med specialundervisning af socisologistuderende på senere årsprøver, så de ligesom kunne hive nogen topkarakterer hjem. Og helt ærligt, så kan man altså hører på folks argumenter og ressornemanter (damn, sådan staves det ikke), ca hvor vi ligger. Edited October 23, 2004 by jarvig13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 23, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 Jarvig, med den succes du oplever, burde du da udgive en lignende bog på dansk... så kommer du sguda til at tjene $$$$ :4thumbup: Jeg skal bare ha' 10% <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Jeg ved ikke hvad der sker!?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
typen Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? Forklaringen på ovenstående, tror jeg skal findes i den udstråling du har fået.Jeg kan selvfølgelig ikke sidde bag min computer og sige du har fået udstråling, når jeg ikke har mødt dig IRL ..men noget tyder på det Jeg har sendt dig en PM som du gerne må svare på.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cfred Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Du må jo udtråle noget norsk. Det kan sikker rettes med en anden deo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ptpoul Posted October 23, 2004 Report Share Posted October 23, 2004 Det er klassikeren. har du først fået charmet en pige, ja så stiger selvtilliden mange grader, .det viser man og får kun mere interesse fra kvinderne. Så er det bare at skrabe tlf numre ind En af de effekter, der også kommer af at have en kæreste.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Svarer i morgen. Er pt. lige lidt træt. Det har været en "hård" aften, hvor kræfterne er gået til mine venner med sorgfulde tanker. Specielt min ven der mistede sin mor har krævet lidt eksra omsorg (selvfølgelig). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? Forklaringen på ovenstående, tror jeg skal findes i den udstråling du har fået.Jeg kan selvfølgelig ikke sidde bag min computer og sige du har fået udstråling, når jeg ikke har mødt dig IRL ..men noget tyder på det Jeg har sendt dig en PM som du gerne må svare på..<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Ja, det er sikkert rigtigt. Angående PM'en - skal nok svare.Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Du må jo udtråle noget norsk. Det kan sikker rettes med en anden deo <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Nordsøolie vil sikkert virker. Det er klassikeren. har du først fået charmet en pige, ja så stiger selvtilliden mange grader, .det viser man og får kun mere interesse fra kvinderne. Så er det bare at skrabe tlf numre ind En af de effekter, der også kommer af at have en kæreste..<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Ja, jo, det kan da godt sige. Ville jo nok sige, at det er lidt mere kompliceret end som så - men sådan den hurtige udgave, så ja. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ptpoul Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? Forklaringen på ovenstående, tror jeg skal findes i den udstråling du har fået.Jeg kan selvfølgelig ikke sidde bag min computer og sige du har fået udstråling, når jeg ikke har mødt dig IRL ..men noget tyder på det Jeg har sendt dig en PM som du gerne må svare på..<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Ja, det er sikkert rigtigt. Angående PM'en - skal nok svare.Og mod slutningen af aftenen, så kommer en smukke blondine hen og vil absolut tale med mig. "Jeg er norsk og en sød jente, vil du ikke snakke lidt sammen" siger hun på syngende norsk. Æhhhh, hvad sker der? <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Du må jo udtråle noget norsk. Det kan sikker rettes med en anden deo <{POST_SNAPBACK}> Nordsøolie vil sikkert virker. Det er klassikeren. har du først fået charmet en pige, ja så stiger selvtilliden mange grader, .det viser man og får kun mere interesse fra kvinderne. Så er det bare at skrabe tlf numre ind En af de effekter, der også kommer af at have en kæreste..<{POST_SNAPBACK}>Ja, jo, det kan da godt sige. Ville jo nok sige, at det er lidt mere kompliceret end som så - men sådan den hurtige udgave, så ja. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Netop, mange andre faktorer spiller også ind.m Men egentligt ligegyldigt. Så længe det virker virker det :pimp:Er der en date på tapetet? Vi skal have indkøbt solbriller og have klippet spionhuller i avisen, så vi ubemærket kan overvåge din datingteknik på nært hold.Hvor får man blå briller? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Billetter kan købes - send PM - sideplads med blå briller 500 kr. Men der er også billigere billetter. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
c0y0te Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Husk nu at beholde fødderne på jorden, for døren svinger jo begge veje Det er lækkert at læse at det går dig godt. :4thumbup: Vi venter spændt på næste uges begivenheder. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ptpoul Posted October 24, 2004 Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Billetter kan købes - send PM - sideplads med blå briller 500 kr. Men der er også billigere billetter. <{POST_SNAPBACK}>*ROFL* Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 24, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 24, 2004 Husk nu at beholde fødderne på jorden, for døren svinger jo begge veje <{POST_SNAPBACK}>Ja, bare rolig. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JokerX Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 Hej JarvigNu kom jeg ved et tilfælde til at læse i din log, jeg kan faktisk ikke huske hvordan, for jeg har egentlig altid bare set dig som ham der er særdels aktiv i offtopic forummet og som jeg intet har tilfælles med Jeg starter på den side hvor du kommer hjem en nat, og er helt vildt lange nede. Jeg læser side op og ned, og det hele bliver bare mere og mere interessant som jeg får mig gravet frem i masserne af gode og velmente indlæg. Altså på den relativ korte tid der er gået, er det en helt sindsyg udstråling dine indlæg har fået. Det må 100% sikkert også have noget at gøre med din succes i nattelivet!Det var også ligesom femøren faldt for mig, da jeg læste det første fra ham amerikanere. Nu er jeg jo blot en ung og uvidende gut på 20 år, men jeg kan alligevel godt se at jeg tidligere med stor succes har anvendt en teknik der minder om hans, med stor succes til følge.Jeg har mødt denne vidunderlige pige, som jeg mildest talt er hamrende forelsket i. Jeg er den der søde, venlige og altid parate ven for hende. Hun er ikke synderlig interesseret og hver gang vi er sammen, ender det med hun er sammen med en eller anden smart fyr. Jeg begynder at være lidt træt af det, da jeg åbenbart får en helt genial ide. Jeg går i skole med en ganske smuk pige på daværende tidspunkt, hun er ikke en jeg har ret meget at gøre med men man kigger naturligvis lidt efter hende, pga. hendes udseende. En dag da jeg sidder ved skolens computer, finder jeg nogle billeder af hende på harddisken. Jeg uploader billederne på min egen server, og ligger dem diskret op så hun ikke kan undgå at finde finde dem næste gang hun logger på nettet. Hun er MEGET nysgerrig men jeg holder lidt hænd med informationerne, hun vil vide om jeg er forelsket i denne smukke pige men jeg vil ikke rigtig svare. Jeg spiller spillet uden rigtig at vide det, men det får altså min veninde HELT op på dupperne! På nogle få dage skifter det fra at være mig som starter samtalen, til at være hende som vil have de lange og seriøse samtaler. Pludselig sidder hun gudhjælpemig og ligger an på mig, og jeg kan næsten ikke tro det er sandt! Nu kendte jeg jo ikke til teknikken, så dum som jeg er springer jeg i glæde tilbage på den gamle vogn og ligeså hurtigt som pigebarnet fik interesse for mig, ligeså hurtigt forsvandt den igen.Ja altså det var bare lige min lille erfaring, med en taktik som nogenlunde er den samme. Jeg vil helt klart læse mere med ham din helt Jeg vil glæde mig til at skulle følge med i denne noget specielle logbog, som er et dejlig frisk pust her på MOL. Held og lykke med Shania tøsen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 25, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 JokerX -> Interessant historie, som jo er endnu et indicie på, at det nok ikke er helt ved siden af at se på dating-racet fra den "omvendte" side af.PS: Når der ikke er meget træning i min log, så er det altså fordi mit knæ driller mig pt. Det må have ro til at komme sig over sin inflamations-tilstand.PPS: Forresten ret imponeret over, at du tygget dig gennem 150 indlæg i denne log. Håber du har fået noget ud af det. For ligeså meget jeg selv mener at min ærlighed er godt for min egen selvudvikling ligeså meget tror jeg på, at andre også kan få noget ud af det. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 25, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 Her er lidt mere guld fra DeAngelos ugentlige datingtips. Husk nu som sædvanlig - forstå pointerne og så gør det på din egen måde - ikke som en opskrift der slavisk skal følges. Here's an interesting story... A few hours ago I was standing in a "posh" barin San Francisco. I was standing near to the bar, looking aroundat the people, when the guy next to me stars talking to a girl that he doesn't know. She turned and looked at him with a look that said "I don't know you, I don't want to talk to you, and you have no chance with me". The look on her face couldn't have been more clear. As soon as he started talking to her, she put up her defenses. The more he tried to talk to her, the more annoyed she got. It was painful to watch. Then things got REALLY interesting. The guy turned to me and started making conversation with me. He asked me how I was "doing" with the ladies at the bar. I told him that I had just arrived, and I wasn't particularly in the mood to talk to women at the moment... I was just enjoying my drink and relaxing. He then started to talk about how "meeting women was a numbers game" and how he had been "laying rap" on women all night... but he didn't have any "luck" so far. We started discussing our different approachesto meeting women. I told him that when I decide to talk to a woman that I really find attractive, I am confident that I'll be successful with her. He kind of laughed and told me that meeting women was a game of luck, and if you wanted to win, you had to just keep playing the numbers... and hope you find one that likes you. Right at that moment, two cute women walked up to the bar. One of them was very hot.- He looked at the hotter girl, pointed to her, and said "I like that". I said "Well then go talk to her". He decided to go "order a drink" (in other words, he was going to go up to the bar and FAKE like he was there to order a drink, and then "accidentally" start a conversation with her). Of course, he already HAD a drink, so he fumbled around trying to find a place to put it down so he could walk up to the bar with no drink and not look like he was "on the make". It was pretty damn funny. Anyway, he squeezes in next to this girl, and tries to act like he's just there to get a drink. He then turns to her, and tries to start a conversation. What happened? Of course... Her defenses went up INSTANTLY. She said a few words to him, but then turned away from him, took her drink and her friend, and walked away from the bar. He came back over to me and made no comment about the interaction with her... I watched him try to talk to more women after that... all with the same result. Their defenses went up AS SOON as he started talking to them. This guy's theory of "talking to a lot of women until you get lucky and find one who likes you" was working pretty well... Except for the fact that he WASN'T getting "lucky" at all, and NO women liked him....HITTING THE WALL-------------------------------------------------- Have you ever been in a situation talking toa girl, and you could just FEEL that she had her"defenses up"? Or have you ever been out on a date with awoman, and had a bad feeling in your GUT aboutthe situation... and no matter what you did, thesituation only got worse, and she seemed to getfurther away from you? If you're like me, then you've been in a LOTof these situations. In fact, I think it's happened to me so manytimes that I have "female defense radar". It'slike I can tell INSTANTLY if a woman has herdefenses up... and it doesn't feel GOOD. You've been there... one minute everything isOK, and the next minute she has flipped on somekind of force-field that is PERMANENT. You know what I'm talking about... And once the defenses are up, it's as if shehas become a DIFFERENT person. And trying to makeit better only makes it worse. Always. That's called HITTING THE WALL. And once you hit it, there's no bouncing back.A WOMAN'S DEFENSES, AND HOW THEY WORK So what's up with that? Why do women have this "defense mechanism"? What triggers it? And how can we, as guys, get past it? Well, the reality is that a woman's defensemechanism is something that PROTECTS her. Itsaves her time. And it saves her headaches andhassles. You've heard me say that attractive women areapproached ALL THE TIME by men. In one way oranother, an attractive woman is CONSTANTLYapproached and pursued by men. Women can't afford to spend even a FRACTIONof their time with every guy who shows interest,so they use "time management" techniques. How 21st century of them. One of these "time management techniques" istheir defense mechanism. If a girl decides that she isn't interested inbeing with a particular guy... and it doesn'tmatter if it's within the first five seconds orthe first five months... the mechanism kicks in. It creates an invisible wall that protectsher. You can feel it. She can feel it. And eventhough neither of you can see it, you both knowthat it's more powerful than a real wall...because most men don't know how to get PAST it. I know that you've thought about this issueat some point. If you're like me, you've thoughtabout it a LOT. Maybe even obsessively. Maybe youhave even schemed and tortured yourself trying tofigure out the magic way to get past a woman'sdefenses... Are you with me here?A NEW WAY OF LOOKING AT THINGS... What if I were to tell you that YOU are theone who actually controls her defense mechanism? And what if I were to tell you that all thistime, YOU'RE THE ONE who's been causing women toput up their defenses, and shut you out? And what if I told you that looking for themagic way to "get past her defenses" was reallya waste of time? What if I told you instead that the ULTIMATEway to "get past" her defenses was to NEVERCAUSE HER TO PUT THEM UP initially? See, the reality is that her defenses are aRESPONSE or a REACTION to something YOU aredoing. YOU are the one who's doing things thatkick off the sequence of events. In fact, if you think of it from thisparticular perspective, you'll realize that youREALLY ARE controlling her defense mechanisms.BACK TO MY STORY... Shortly after his "bad luck" episodes, the guyI was talking to in the bar walked away from me. I stood at the bar thinking of what he hadjust said and done... and how so many guys I'vemet think the same way. Right then, a woman asked me if I'd move over alittle bit so she could order a drink. I said "sure", and turned sideways so she couldsqueeze in next to me. At first, I turned my back to her. After a minute or two, I turned back around, andstarted talking to her and her friends. I was teasing them and making fun, and generallybeing a pain in the ass. There were a total of four girls there together,and I was talking to three of them. I turned my attention to the quietest of thethree, and started teasing her. I asked her why she was so quiet, teasing herabout it, etc. Every time I asked her a question or saidsomething, she either shook her head "no" or noddedher head "yes". No words. Finally, she held up her left hand and proudlydisplayed her wedding ring. She said "I'm married". I laughed at her and said "Wow, good for you. Iguess if I was trying to pick up on you I'd be prettyupset right now... but I'm not, so you don't haveanything to worry about". Now, the REALITY of the situation was that I wasNOT trying to "pick up on her". She was the least attractive woman in the group,and her personality was about as interesting as amule's. Her friends heard me say this to her, and theyturned and looked at me with wide eyes. They couldn't believe that I had just said thatto their friend, and they could tell that I wasbeing VERY serious, and that I could care less whatshe thought of me. I went on talking to these four girls for therest of the night... about another hour or so. I mixed up the conversation. Sometimes I talked to one of them... sometimestwo... sometimes three... sometimes all four. I teased them all, busted on them, called themall kinds of freaky-chick names, and generallyacted like they were my four bratty little sistersthat annoyed me... but who I still loved (a little). By the end of the evening, I was sitting on alittle couch with three of the girls. At this point, there were almost NO women leftat this bar. I'd say the guy/girl ratio was about6 or 7 to 1. I could see about 30 guys standing around me,and maybe 5 or 6 women. And I had 3 of those 5 or 6on the couch next to me. At one point, two of them were on either side ofme massaging me at the same time. It was funny. Of course RIGHT AT THAT MOMENT the guy fromearlier walked by, stopped, and looked at me. Thelook of shock in his eye was priceless. He didn'teven say hi... he just walked away. The evening ended with two of the girls kissingme, and one of them getting my number because shewas going to be in my area in a few weeks and wantedto see me... Now, don't bust my balls about not "closing thedeal"... lol. I could have had a CRAZY evening withthese girls, but it's not exactly my style, and Iwasn't in the mood to stay up all night. Let's get down to the point... The reason why I was so successful with theseparticular women was because I didn't do what everyother guy that they ran into did... I didn't trigger their DEFENSE MECHANISMS. They had time to get to know me... they had timeto get comfortable with me... and they had time tospark all kinds of sexual tension and attractionwith them. Now let me tell you how I did it...WHAT TRIGGERS A WOMAN'S DEFENSEMECHANISM... AND HOW TO AVOID IT I'm about to give you a VERY important insightinto how women interact with men. Pay close attention to this. It's taken me aLONG time to figure this out... Women are VERY perceptive. They know what a guy is thinking by looking athis body language, and listening to his voice tone. Some experts estimate that women are as much asTEN TIMES better than men at reading body language. To most women, men are an OPEN BOOK. Guys have no idea just how obvious they are... And there's one particular thing that triggersa woman's defense mechanism faster than a chubbykid eats cake... It's SEEKING APPROVAL. In every situation with a woman, you can sayWHATEVER you want to say in a way that either:1) Seeks her approval2) Doesn't seek her approval Think about it. You're either SEEKING APPROVAL... or you'reNOT... And most guys ARE when they're talking to awoman that they're interested in. As I watched the guy in the bar walk up towomen and try to start conversations all night,the ONE thing that was obvious to all that hadthe eyes to see was that he wanted APPROVAL. He wanted the women to LIKE him. I guarantee you that this man was an honest-to-goodness certifiable WUSSY... and every womanthat he tried to talk to could SMELL it on him. On the other hand, when I talk to a woman, Iavoid seeking approval. I make it clear, no matter what I'm saying ordoing, that it doesn't matter whether or not shelikes me... I could care less. The more I made it clear to the women I wastalking to that I DIDN'T need their approval,the more they LIKED ME. If you want to get past a woman's defenses,the best plan of action is to NOT TRIGGER themIN THE FIRST PLACE. Now, the reality of this situation is thatsome women are walking around with theirdefenses already up. Maybe they're married, ormaybe they're angry at men... or maybe they'rejust very shy. We live in the real world, and this is partof it. But in most situations YOU are the one whotriggers the defenses. It's YOU. I have several friends who I've watched interacting with women MANY, MANY times... andthese particular guys RARELY, if EVER get the"defensive" cold shoulder from women. Why? Because they're not seeking approval. They'rejust doing what they want, and being themselves. If you can spend an hour talking to a woman,and not seek her approval the entire time, youstand a DRAMATICALLY better chance of takingthings to the next level with her. That simple demonstration of showing her afull hour of non-approval-seeking behavior andcommunication will separate you from 99% of allthe guys that have approached her in her life. And the best part about this particulartechnique is that it's NOT MANIPULATION. Infact, seeking approval is far more manipulativethan what I'm saying here. In fact, one of the reasons why women don'tlike guys who seek approval is because they INSTANTLY sense that the guys is using aMANIPULATIVE tactic. If you think through the situations thatyou've been in with women, you realize that thisis the case. So stop seeking women's approval when youmeet them. Stop it! Learn how to say things in a way that clearlycommunicates that you don't need her to like youor approve of you. Then learn how to be Cocky & Funny. When you can make a woman laugh while you'reNOT seeking her approval, you have a powerfulcombination that sparks ATTRACTION. Which leads me to the VERY BEST way of allto get past a woman's defenses. MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTION FOR YOU. If a woman feels a powerful ATTRACTION foryou, then the kinds of defenses that we'retalking about here don't even come into play. Attraction is such a powerful physical andemotional response that it temporarily disablesa woman's defense mechanisms... It's the one thing, if you know how to do it,that women WISH you would trigger inside of them. Once a woman starts to feel that magicalemotional and physical response calledATTRACTION, the entire situation changes, andyou start having the kinds of success with womenthat most men only dream about. And most women go through life WISHING,HOPING, AND DREAMING that they will somedayfind a man that can make them feel this amazingfeeling...Go out and get them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EverLast Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 Hmmm...lige der er han altså lidt for selvfed og en anelse forudsigelig ham DeAngelo :) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 25, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 Du har altså ikke læst mine kommentarer i indlæget !? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JokerX Posted October 25, 2004 Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 DeAngelo Håber du vil smide nogle flere interessante indlæg, når du løber ind i dem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 25, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 25, 2004 Jeg tror slet ikke du ville kunne administrere alle de gode råd, hvis jeg gav dig dem alle sammen. Men jeg skal lade et råd dryppe i ny og næ. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarvig13 Posted October 26, 2004 Author Report Share Posted October 26, 2004 (edited) Så er mailen (i bedste DeAngelo stil) om en date sendt til min vendinde. Skal godt nok til London onsdag-tirsdag, så der har jeg udelukket hende - men lad os se om hun er frisk til næste uge (ellers er der jo andre fisk i vandet, der er interessante ) Edited October 26, 2004 by jarvig13 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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